My band, Safe Houses, just dropped a new single and music video, “I’ll Be Bad to You,” and it’s currently available on all the usual-suspect platforms: video on YouTube and Vimeo; audio on Bandcamp, SoundCloud, Spotify, YouTube Music, and the other major streamers. I often describe Safe Houses’ sound as “jangle-garage,” but what that really means is a blend of powerpop, garage rock, “classic indie,” post-punk, and whatever else happens to be in the air. Punk backing and ‘60s pop sensibility that reserves the right to go off the rails when appropriate. “I’ll Be Bad to You” is, to my ear, squarely in the powerpop zone, but we welcome alternate opinions. It’s the latest digital-only release from my label, University of Space Recording Co., and the lead single from our upcoming EP, The Winter I Turned Psychic. It’s also available via a QR code on a business card, and if you’re in a bar or a coffee shop in Bushwick, Brooklyn or Ridgewood, Queens, you might find a few. The QR code links to Bandcamp – you can actually download the song there, for just $1.
We shot the video for “I’ll Be Bad to You” in and outside of East Williamsburg EconoLodge, the long-running DIY spot somewhere in the tangle of the industrial park. We worked with co-directors Tasha Lutek and Jamie Frey, friends of ours – Tasha and Jamie also co-directed our video for “Someday Is Starting Now,” and Jamie fronts the excellent NYC rock’n’roll band Nite Music. (I played guitar for a spell in NO ICE, Jamie’s previous excellent NYC rock’n’roll band.) The concept is that Safe Houses and our fictional “evil” counterparts, Dangerous Motels, are both playing shows, and Dangerous Motels keep trying to undermine Safe Houses’ gig while harassing folks around the venue. Then, of course, Safe Houses and Dangerous Motels face off, or in other words we basically have to fight ourselves in the street. We shot it in one very productive afternoon.
When we play “I’ll Be Bad to You” live, I often intro it by saying, “This song is about what it’s like when you’re single and you’re thinking, ‘If I could convince someone to be in a relationship with me, I’d be a really good partner,’ and then you find yourself in a relationship and you realize you were totally wrong about yourself.”
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On Staying Out of the Comments in 2023
I’m taking a few seconds right now to consider how my social media habits have changed over this past year. Of course they’ve changed, because the discourse on pretty much all of the major social platforms has been changing. You can adapt, or not.
Basically, the way I’ve adapted is by steering clear of other people’s threads unless I can bring something unique to the table. And the way I need to continue adapting is by not simply taking my two cents to forums where I appear slightly more anonymous. An interesting thought deserves to find its proper place, and finding that place often takes time. If it’s actually an idea that deserves its proper place, the wait is worth it.
One practice I’m really glad I leaned into this year is: Whenever I feel compelled to post anything on any social platform, I ask myself whether it stands to reason that someone else who has better knowledge of the subject has already said the same thing, more articulately and authoritatively. Usually I’ll presume someone else has. Sometimes I’ll Google an entire phrase that pops into my head and find someone else said the same thing years ago. I’m just not here to post timeline white noise bs that makes me look dumb.
I’m especially wary about adding to the white noise because so many people I used to interact with heavily on Facebook and Twitter have been scarce on the socials in 2022.
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